Getting The Ex Back - Overview

Have you been dumped, and now you feel completely lost, and broken? Most of us have to deal with an untimely break up, and just try to get on with our lives and forget. However, some of us don’t just want to “move on”, and luckily there are options. A break up is just that, a break up. Things that get broken can be fixed. Consider my tips the superglue you need.

Truth be told, the vast majority of the time, you CAN get your ex back with the proper protocol, and a little self-study. First, is to take an honest look at what happened to cause the break up. You cannot go back in time and change what happened, but you will need to figure out what was wrong to ever fix it in the future. Make sense?

The break up could have been caused by a singular bad event, or could have been slowly brewing over time. Regardless, it is necessary to find it out, so you can avoid it later. You can get an ex back with certain steps, but to keep them you are going to have to change what’s broken.

Even though you are trying to get your ex back, it is important to keep in mind that you should keep your agenda hidden. You are not going to get your ex back by running towards them with your arms open. You have to disguise your intention for now, as showing that you actually want them can play against you. You can appear weak, and this is not to your benefit. You must maintain the appearance of being totally fine with being broken up. This is tough. I know. But do you want to get your ex back, or not?

Also trying to make your ex jealous does not work. The reason is it looks phony most of the time, and your ex sees right through it. Aside from that, it will help validate their decision to leave you. They see you have moved on, so they might as well too. While letting them see that you are doing fine is good, throwing a new re-bound friend in their face is counter-productive. Just let your ex see that you are confident and stable, this will help to re-attract them to you.