Get The Ex Back - First Move

Ok, so you just got dumped. What's your first move to get the ex back?. Well it takes a good poker face, but you would be well suited to wear one. You do not want to show your real emotions at this point, you have to remain cool.

Reacting with emotion at this point will only push your ex further away. You have to give them space if they pull away. They expect you to hold on, so if you just let go, you use thier own power against them. They are the ones who may end up falling. Does that make sense?

The best first move after getting dumped, would be to completely agree with the break up. You want to come across as almost relieved that the relationship is over. That would be the best play. You don't want to seem like a jerk, just agree, and even mention that you had been thinking the same thing.

You might be saying to yourself, "Well I'm way past that point. I have already spilled my guts and sobbed like a baby to my ex". It's okay, you can still save face by pulling back and composing yourself. The effect won't be quite as strong, but you cannot continue to show weakness if you want to get the ex back. It's pretty simple really, weakness is not attractive; Being confident, happy, and full of life is. So even if you feel like a loser, you would be doing yourself a favor to play it cool. You have to suck it up, and keep your head held high. This is the best first step to get the ex back in your life.